我是誰(5)幸福的記憶?!

劉奶爸的童年

聽說,在祖母還沒生病前,阿爸在嘉義開中藥行,生活過的還不錯,經濟條件也不差。從這張照片看來,個個豐衣足食的模樣,我相信所言不假。

這時候的我應該還不到三歲吧,居然能夠穿著昂貴的西裝,和俗到不行的花襪 (也許是我媽當年流行這樣的童襪吧!) ,再配上一張滿月的臉! 我只能說…好肥嘟…呃不…是好幸福^^

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心理研究顯示,三歲前的小孩若能夠得到充分的擁抱,生活充滿安全感,沒有過多不必要的壓力,腦部的結構發展會較為堅固而健全。這樣的孩子情緒也會十分穩定,將來面臨社會嚴酷的現實考驗,能具備較高的抗壓能力。

我正在努力回憶,自己的童年是否如此美麗!  也努力檢討自己,對待自己的兒子是否也給予充分愛的抱抱? 或是給予過當的壓力?

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今年的網誌主題 ~ 我是誰

柏拉圖說:「未經審視的生活是毫無價值的。」書寫是幫助人回觀生命的最佳工具,寫下這一生從小到大的故事對自己造成的影響,找出生命的熱情與前進的力量。
寫作內容:親子教育、兩性愛情、人性剖析、故事行銷。

劉奶爸2011的目標是在FB持續刊登網路行銷重心~故事行銷的方法(以個人成長故事為案例),
徹底剖析人性心理的快樂、矛盾、痛苦與爭札…

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特別出色的人,總是到成名之後,才會有人想去了解他的過去與成長的背景! 你有沒有想過,先觀察自己從小到大的成長過程,來預測未來的自己會變成什麼樣的人?

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  1. English Translation (英文翻譯):

    What I heard is before grandma was sick, daddy had a drugstore (pharmacy) in Chiayi, and life was pretty good at that time. From this photo, it looks like everyone is well fed, thus I am convinced that this is true.

    During that time, I was less than 3 years old, but I was already wearing expensive suit, and ridiculous looking flower socks (I think it was probably trendy at that time), combined with my big round face, I can only say… What a fat kid I am! Mmm… Or should I say, I was so blessed.

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    According to some research on psychology, for children who are less than 3 years, if they manage to get plenty of hugs from their parents, they will feel very secure in life. And if they do not have any unnecessary pressure, their brain development will be much stronger and healthier. These children will have greater emotion stability, and possess better ability to face the challenges and pressures in the modern realistic world.

    I am trying hard to recall on how sweet is my childhood. And also review what I have done so far, whether I have given my children enough love and hugs? Or have I given them too much pressure?

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